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My Hamstrings, My Ego, and the Gift of Asking for Help

21 January 2025 by
My Hamstrings, My Ego, and the Gift of Asking for Help
Il Tennista

I’ve always believed in pushing through.

You know that voice: “It’s just tightness,” “I’ll stretch it out,” “Give it time.”

For a year, I let that voice speak louder than the pain.

But by the start of January, the truth was impossible to ignore:

I couldn’t sit for more than 30 minutes without sharp, deep pain in my hamstrings.

Not just discomfort, real pain.

It would travel high, where the hamstrings connect near the sit bones: classic proximal hamstring tendinopathy.

It was a pain that reminded me something I’d rather forget:

I’m not 20 anymore. And I can’t do this alone.


The Physical Toll

I’d feel it during serves and forehands, especially the loading phase.

I’d feel it when I bent to tie my shoes.

But the worst part? I felt it just sitting still.

Sitting for dinner with friends.

Watching a movie with my daughter.

Even driving to the club became something I dreaded.

It’s strange how something so small—just the act of sitting—can start to eat away at your spirit.


The Mental Shift

Here’s the real win, though.

I finally asked for help.

That might sound small, but for me, it was a mountain.

I come from the generation that was taught to tough it out.

And if I’m honest, there’s pride wrapped up in that. A bit of ego, too.

But this journey is not just about chasing a ranking.

It’s about evolving.

And this month, evolution looked like this:

Sitting across from a physiotherapist and saying, “I can’t fix this alone.”


An Open Mind, A Healing Body

The physio sessions just started.

Trigger point therapy.

Isometric holds.

Careful glute and hamstring reactivation.

A slow but intelligent reintroduction to movement.

And even more importantly: education.

I learned what this injury really is—an overuse condition, where the tendon at the top of the hamstring becomes irritated from too much load, too soon, without enough strength or support.

I learned that it’s not about pushing through, it’s about loading smart.

That the tendon needs challenge, but in a structured, progressive way.

I listened. I asked questions. I'm following the plan.

I felt something shift not just in my body, but in my mind.

That old voice of “tough it out”?

It started to quiet.

And a new voice came through:

“Let yourself be helped.”